Quote from: madman3 on February 02, 2012, 01:59:52 PMWhen on the receiving end of insults, make light of it so it's more of a joke for yourself as well. This should make you more approachable and seem less fazed by insults, which helps with getting generally better liked.I tried that, they told me to stop searching for pity, or said 'we're laughing at you, not with you' or their other favourite was stopping laughing when I started, and saying 'it's not funny', and then walking off, just shutting up, or proceeding to insult me in some other way, still retaining their previous hatred. There was only one reason I ended up with a shred of respect at the end, and that was because of me playing blood knuckles, and not whining about the pain, even with my right hand being completely mashed up. And then there was the game of extreme rock paper scissors which only ended because the tutor made it.
When on the receiving end of insults, make light of it so it's more of a joke for yourself as well. This should make you more approachable and seem less fazed by insults, which helps with getting generally better liked.
I think SM is a pretty cool guy, eh builds unicycle-bots and doesn't afraid of anything
Quote from: Chaosmancer on February 02, 2012, 02:07:54 PMQuote from: madman3 on February 02, 2012, 01:59:52 PMWhen on the receiving end of insults, make light of it so it's more of a joke for yourself as well. This should make you more approachable and seem less fazed by insults, which helps with getting generally better liked.I tried that, they told me to stop searching for pity, or said 'we're laughing at you, not with you' or their other favourite was stopping laughing when I started, and saying 'it's not funny', and then walking off, just shutting up, or proceeding to insult me in some other way, still retaining their previous hatred. There was only one reason I ended up with a shred of respect at the end, and that was because of me playing blood knuckles, and not whining about the pain, even with my right hand being completely mashed up. And then there was the game of extreme rock paper scissors which only ended because the tutor made it.I've never really had to deal with jerks of that level.Of course, the next best thing you can do is to embarrass them in a cruel or even witty way; this is done best around other non-jerks as it makes the jerks less likable by comparison.
I've never been popular or liked in school. Most of the guys say that I have the weirdos as friends. Do I give a ****? No. Because those guys who have been my friends, are very friendly and very great persons. And the rest in my school are just douches. Hell,last time I had girlfriend when I was 12. And I don't really have rushbeing in a relationship with someone, but if someone asks, I would surely go for a date with herLast time I have talked only 1 IRL friend face to face on this year. I will even delete my IRL facebook. I just love the internet, it's my second life.But I still recommend to have atleast few friends IRL, and meet them every now and then..
Quote from: doublestrand on February 02, 2012, 11:24:33 AMso in that experience with your mother you branded all females traitorous scumbags?yep your hopeless... nothing I say will open your eyeswell my mum is also a bitch, so...all women are traitoraouos scumbags
so in that experience with your mother you branded all females traitorous scumbags?yep your hopeless... nothing I say will open your eyes
Quote from: TeamXtreemer on February 02, 2012, 11:25:39 AMQuote from: doublestrand on February 02, 2012, 11:24:33 AMso in that experience with your mother you branded all females traitorous scumbags?yep your hopeless... nothing I say will open your eyeswell my mum is also a bitch, so...all women are traitoraouos scumbagsIs my mom the only one who is nice? AFAIK she did not marry for money and is not planning divorce
You got my vote for RA2 Wizard. Always and forever.
****'em ....feed'em fish heads!Who needs friends when you have the internets?
And oh yea i was bullied to sh** as a wee lad. Then in 7th grade one of the jocks started talking sh** about me and punched me around as usual but i completely lost my sh** this time and retaliated and put his ass on the ground and curb stomped him to the point where i almost broke his nose.He threw the first punch so i only got 2 days of detention.feltgoodman.jpgAfter that i started to grow my hair out and nobody really bothered me afterwords.
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