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I am pretty sure I am a lot more Narcissistic than average.
Quote from: 123savethewhales on December 27, 2010, 11:56:21 PMI am pretty sure I am a lot more Narcissistic than average.Oh, you are not the only one who is convinced of this...Maybe they consider narcissism as having an OVERLY INFLATED opinion of yourself, and I know you're smart enough not to have.
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:(1) has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)(2) is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love(3) believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)(4) requires excessive admiration(5) has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations(6) is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends(7) lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others(8) is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her(9) shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
Empathy is the capacity not to read people's emotions, or not even to understand them, but to (even if empathy is different from sympathy IIRC) with them and feel the same emotions as they do. AKA caring about their happiness and/or sadness, something I cannot do without valuable reason for example.Lack of empathy => basically not caring for others => no more morality problems in your way when you want to manipulate people !
Being aware of feelings in another is very different from experiencing these same feelings.
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