Author Topic: My life sucks atm. (Read 2141 times)

Zog · « **on:** November 13, 2010, 07:09:48 AM »

My friends have left me, I get teased, bullied, taunted 24/7. By the looks of things, you guys are my only help. My family has basically abandoned me as well. I really wish that I could say things are well, but they are not.

SteveM4 · « **Reply #1 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:13:39 AM »

Aw, sounds like it is bad...

Naryar · « **Reply #2 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:23:26 AM »

Either ignore them, or kick their asses. It's your choice really.

Zog · « **Reply #3 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:27:58 AM »

The whole of my year, Nary.

That will be a pretty biased fight.

SteveM4 · « **Reply #4 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:34:50 AM »

Not if you has a fire!

Velocity EVO · « **Reply #5 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:35:50 AM »

Quote from: Zog on November 13, 2010, 07:09:48 AM

My friends have left me, I get teased, bullied, taunted 24/7. By the looks of things, you guys are my only help. My family has basically abandoned me as well. I really wish that I could say things are well, but they are not.

I... dont know what to make of this. Ive been in this position before. It was rather difficult. Just trust in yourself. If your friends have left/abandoned etc etc. Then they are not your real friends. those who stick by you are

JoeBlo · « **Reply #6 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:47:56 AM »

do you mind me asking.. why would everyone leave you ?

was it something you said/ did ?

it is always possible to set things right with anyone.. I know first hand

Zog · « **Reply #7 on:** November 13, 2010, 07:54:13 AM »

By my family basically abandoning me, I mean that my Dad is always away, my sister doesn't give a sh**, and my Mum just doesn't have a clue on what I'm talking about.

I've told her that I'd like to change school, and I hope that will happen. I have reported the bullying (3 times), but my housemaster says he'll sort it out and yet he didn't do anything at all - my school just doesn't care about bullying: they let one guy stay out in the freezing cold in his underwear for 5 hours because his "friends" tied him up for his 18th birthday.

Long story made short, and pointed out:

1. Me and a girl get along well.
2. I ask girl if she wants to come to Subway with me. She says yes.
3. Another guy comes up to me later and asks if I want to come to Subway with him. I say no as I'm going with someone.
4. Guy misenterprets this, thinking that I'm going on a date with girl, when we're meant to be going as friends.
5. Guy starts telling everyone, causing a mass chain reaction.
6. Girl finds out. I text her explaining what happened.
7. Girl believes me, but the guy finds out about the text, and tells girl bull crap lies.
8. Girl believes him.
9. Massive chain argument texts between me and girl.
10. Girl gives phone to player boy.
11. Player boy shows everyone in my year the texts.
12. Cue all the taunts and jeers.

CaptainUseless · « **Reply #8 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:06:09 AM »

That guy sounds like a d**che.
My advice is ...............
Publicly embarrass him (You have to REALLY embarrass him) then people will tease/taunt him and not you (Some people might but most won't)
OR
You could threaten to publicly embarrass him. If he doesn't think you will, well then do it.

Scorpion · « **Reply #9 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:11:29 AM »

Sounds like ou've got a fairly s*** school.
To start with, this guy seems to be the cause of most of your troubles, I wouldn't let him get away with something like that.
Even if it resorts to violence with this guy, he probably won't mess with you again, atleast from my experiences ages ago.
Hell, I once punched a guy because he stole a bourbon biscuit from me (no i'm not fat and no i'm not a pshyco either).
Point is, it showed him to not mess with me.

Changing schools may be a good option aswell, although I wanted to leave my school back in year 7 and early year 8 for similair reasons, my dad wouldn't let me and managed to convince me to give it an extra month and I am SO gratefull I did. I.E, just make sure you really do want to leave, it's quite a big decission to make.

Zog · « **Reply #10 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:11:58 AM »

Problem is, he's in the same dorm as me.

And what would be a good way of publicly embarrassing him?

CaptainUseless · « **Reply #11 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:15:56 AM »

Embarrassing photos etc

Scorpion · « **Reply #12 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:19:01 AM »

Much easier to just smack him in the face next time he bugs you.
Might seem like the wrong thing to do, or may make you think you're going to get beaten up, but it will still shut him up.

CaptainUseless · « **Reply #13 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:19:34 AM »

Pain doesn't last forever, embarrassment does.

Scorpion · « **Reply #14 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:21:33 AM »

Giving the guy a good hiding leads to pain and embarassment.

Stagfish · « **Reply #15 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:22:44 AM »

The way I get along is to laugh at the jokes they make of me, I also like to help people and try to get people out of situations like this but what I mostly do is not take part in anything that will make other people know about me like school competitions. Its why about half of my year dont know who I am and dont bother me.

JoeBlo · « **Reply #16 on:** November 13, 2010, 08:43:48 AM »

why drag yourself down to his level?

do you ever react to what they say?

if you completely ignore everything that is said 100% and continue down the more mature path they will get bored of it and move along.

people only tease or bully for the sake of a reaction.. dont give them one.

NFX · « **Reply #17 on:** November 13, 2010, 09:13:08 AM »

Quote from: Stagfish on November 13, 2010, 08:22:44 AM

The way I get along is to laugh at the jokes they make of me, I also like to help people and try to get people out of situations like this but what I mostly do is not take part in anything that will make other people know about me like school competitions. Its why about half of my year dont know who I am and dont bother me.

That's more or less what I was like. I used to have anger issues, so people would bully me constantly. By the end of second year I had exactly one friend. It was only in third year when I got to know more people, and became more confident in myself that people stopped bullying me.

I guess one way to go about it is try and find something creative to vent your anger, rather than trying to get rid of it immediately. I try playing guitar, writing stuff, drawing things, something to get my thoughts out, rather than keeping them bottled up.

Hydro · « **Reply #18 on:** November 13, 2010, 11:44:31 AM »

Quote from: JoeBlo on November 13, 2010, 08:43:48 AM

why drag yourself down to his level?

do you ever react to what they say?

if you completely ignore everything that is said 100% and continue down the more mature path they will get bored of it and move along.

people only tease or bully for the sake of a reaction.. dont give them one.

QFT

Serge · « **Reply #19 on:** November 13, 2010, 11:57:42 AM »

Quote from: Zog on November 13, 2010, 07:54:13 AM

1. Me and a girl get along well.
2. I ask girl if she wants to come to Subway with me. She says yes.
3. Another guy comes up to me later and asks if I want to come to Subway with him. I say no as I'm going with someone.
4. Guy misenterprets this, thinking that I'm going on a date with girl, when we're meant to be going as friends.
5. Guy starts telling everyone, causing a mass chain reaction.
6. Girl finds out. I text her explaining what happened.
7. Girl believes me, but the guy finds out about the text, and tells girl bull crap lies.
8. Girl believes him.
9. Massive chain argument texts between me and girl.
10. Girl gives phone to player boy.
11. Player boy shows everyone in my year the texts.
12. Cue all the taunts and jeers.

Cry me a river.