You got my vote for RA2 Wizard. Always and forever.
Since you're running a Core 2 Duo, it would be advisable to get a 64-bit OS, and barring that, you're hosed. 32-bit OSes will only recognize 4GB of memory, which includes your RAM and video card memory, dedicated or not.
The /PAE parameter enables Physical Address Extension (PAE). This parameter directs the system to load the PAE version of the Windows kernel. PAE is an addressing strategy that uses a page-translation hierarchy to enable systems that have 32-bit addressing to address more than 4 GB of physical memory.
Anyway, PAE is enable automatically.
Depends on your OS, and if it were he should have more than 2.98 usable.