It seems to me that her mother is the main fuel for the fire. My best advice would be to leave the house, even if for a few days, to one of her friends. That should ease things up quite a bit. I'd like to understand how abusive her mother really is. Either your girlfriend has, for whatever reason, a huge rush of emotions drastically magnifying the real situation or, if her mother really is abusing and even ignoring suicide threats from her own child, I suggest getting help from whatever child protection service her country has.
She's calmed down. She's talked to her family members and hopefully things will be alright from now on. She isn't 100% cured, I'm assuming she'll continue to cut from time to time, but at the moment she's not suicidal, and that's what matters.Quote from: Domanating on March 29, 2015, 06:56:41 PMIt seems to me that her mother is the main fuel for the fire. My best advice would be to leave the house, even if for a few days, to one of her friends. That should ease things up quite a bit. I'd like to understand how abusive her mother really is. Either your girlfriend has, for whatever reason, a huge rush of emotions drastically magnifying the real situation or, if her mother really is abusing and even ignoring suicide threats from her own child, I suggest getting help from whatever child protection service her country has.She has depression and not a lot of friends, yet. She's only recently moved in to Alaska. Her mother is just about the only thing she complains about so....
how about geting proffesional help who actually are trained to know what to do in this situations insted of asking on a internet forum for a video game.......this is a life that caan end tragicly, you are going to regret incase you dont make an serious effort.
Quote from: dezox on March 29, 2015, 02:10:09 PMhow about geting proffesional help who actually are trained to know what to do in this situations insted of asking on a internet forum for a video game.......this is a life that caan end tragicly, you are going to regret incase you dont make an serious effort.idk maybe cause we're both teenagers who have no way of earning money and her family isn't particularly rich?At any rate, I've tipped her friends off to try and talk to her whenever they can in case I'm in school or not available. Hopefully this helps... Hopefully.
im just waiting for meganerdbomb to come along and kick things into gear.
Quote from: S.H.I.E.L.D on March 30, 2015, 04:40:49 AMShe's calmed down. She's talked to her family members and hopefully things will be alright from now on. She isn't 100% cured, I'm assuming she'll continue to cut from time to time, but at the moment she's not suicidal, and that's what matters.Quote from: Domanating on March 29, 2015, 06:56:41 PMIt seems to me that her mother is the main fuel for the fire. My best advice would be to leave the house, even if for a few days, to one of her friends. That should ease things up quite a bit. I'd like to understand how abusive her mother really is. Either your girlfriend has, for whatever reason, a huge rush of emotions drastically magnifying the real situation or, if her mother really is abusing and even ignoring suicide threats from her own child, I suggest getting help from whatever child protection service her country has.She has depression and not a lot of friends, yet. She's only recently moved in to Alaska. Her mother is just about the only thing she complains about so....You should ask her discreetly if she's on her period.
Quote from: Domanating on March 30, 2015, 06:49:12 AMQuote from: S.H.I.E.L.D on March 30, 2015, 04:40:49 AMShe's calmed down. She's talked to her family members and hopefully things will be alright from now on. She isn't 100% cured, I'm assuming she'll continue to cut from time to time, but at the moment she's not suicidal, and that's what matters.Quote from: Domanating on March 29, 2015, 06:56:41 PMIt seems to me that her mother is the main fuel for the fire. My best advice would be to leave the house, even if for a few days, to one of her friends. That should ease things up quite a bit. I'd like to understand how abusive her mother really is. Either your girlfriend has, for whatever reason, a huge rush of emotions drastically magnifying the real situation or, if her mother really is abusing and even ignoring suicide threats from her own child, I suggest getting help from whatever child protection service her country has.She has depression and not a lot of friends, yet. She's only recently moved in to Alaska. Her mother is just about the only thing she complains about so....You should ask her discreetly if she's on her period. Yeahhhhh..... no, not recommended.
Damn SHIELD. That's gotta feel sad for both you and your girlfriend. I do not hope this offends you. Hopefully it works out in the end.
Quote from: RedAce on March 31, 2015, 10:21:16 AMDamn SHIELD. That's gotta feel sad for both you and your girlfriend. I do not hope this offends you. Hopefully it works out in the end.It was a much needed lesson on loss. Even if I didnt lose anyone.
Oh I'll be doing some banging.......
I **** like an animal.
Quote from: HurricaneAndrew on April 16, 2015, 12:48:50 PMI **** like an animal.To be fair, humans ain't nothing but mammals, so I wouldn't be surprised if you did it how they do on the Discovery Channel.