The General Chatter Thread.

[kill343gs]

I dont even words

[Avalanche]

You dont need to, kill.

[Shield]

Guys, my girlfriend wants to off herself. I'm scared and I have no idea what to do. I'm halfway around the world from where she is, I've managed to talk her out of it so far, but even then I'm a little suspicious. She might've already done it already. I'm afraid and I don't know what I can do.

[Philippa]

Guys, my girlfriend wants to off herself. I'm scared and I have no idea what to do. I'm halfway around the world from where she is, I've managed to talk her out of it so far, but even then I'm a little suspicious. She might've already done it already. I'm afraid and I don't know what I can do.

My ex tried to kill herself twice. Both times I did some half-hearted protesting because I knew she didn't have the guts to do it. Don't stress about it.

[Shield]

Guys, my girlfriend wants to off herself. I'm scared and I have no idea what to do. I'm halfway around the world from where she is, I've managed to talk her out of it so far, but even then I'm a little suspicious. She might've already done it already. I'm afraid and I don't know what I can do.

My ex tried to kill herself twice. Both times I did some half-hearted protesting because I knew she didn't have the guts to do it. Don't stress about it.

She frequently cuts herself before this. I've never had someone close to me pass away before, I'm just really really scared that she might actually do it.

[yugitom]

If she's your girlfriend and you both care about each other, just tell her how you would feel if she killed herself. If she cared about you, she won't kill herself, especially if she has noticed how much you fear for her well-being.

[Shield]

If she's your girlfriend and you both care about each other, just tell her how you would feel if she killed herself. If she cared about you, she won't kill herself, especially if she has noticed how much you fear for her well-being.

I tried, but even now she's still on the fence. her mother is abusive and won't stop harassing her, I've already alerted some of her friends and a housemate, I'm hoping they can talk her out of it.

[Naryar]

...Support her as much as you can ?

[Shield]

...Support her as much as you can ?

what do you think i've been doing? I've talked her out of it for now, but it's only a matter of time before it starts again. , she might've already done it by now.

EDIT: Turns out non of the people I contacted are going to come on to read the messages I've sent out. She's also excused herself and said she needs to be offline for a couple of days, I'm feeling incredibly worried now.

[yugitom]

Oh, the drama of 16 year olds...

If her mother is abusive, what about her father? Also, you may want to consider calling Childline if this is the truth.

[Naryar]

I would go next to her.

[helloface]

Keep talking to her as much as you can. Let her know how much you mean to her and how selfish it would be to kill herself, and how you specifically would feel. Check in on her all the time and especially at night, and since she's so far away, try to get her friends to say with her. Above all, make her feel guilty about what would happen if she committed suicide. Don't let her forget that you and her friends care about you and remind her constantly. Good luck.

Oh, the drama of 16 year olds...

Not cool. Believe it or not this sh** happens pretty often and I've heard of a few teens just from my small city offing themselves.

[dezox]

how about geting proffesional help who actually are trained to know what to do in this situations insted of asking on a internet forum for a video game.......

this is a life that caan end tragicly, you are going to regret incase you dont make an serious effort.

[Mr. AS]

how about getting professional help who actually are trained to know what to do in this situations instead of asking on a internet forum for a video game

This right here.

Google can give you a suicide hotline for your country too. Try calling them.

[yugitom]

how about geting proffesional help who actually are trained to know what to do in this situations insted of asking on a internet forum for a video game.......

this is a life that caan end tragicly, you are going to regret incase you dont make an serious effort.

Pretty much this.

Oh, the drama of 16 year olds...

Not cool. Believe it or not this sh** happens pretty often and I've heard of a few teens just from my small city offing themselves.

Sorry if this seemed as if I was taking the mick out of 16 year olds in this situation. I just think it's quite sad that people that young have to go through stuff that ends the life of adults.

[cephalopod]

Dealing with suicide at any age completely blows. Fortunately it's often empty threats amongst teens.

[dezox]

how about geting proffesional help who actually are trained to know what to do in this situations insted of asking on a internet forum for a video game.......

this is a life that caan end tragicly, you are going to regret incase you dont make an serious effort.

Pretty much this.

Yes but he needs to remember he is 16 and boyfriend, it is naive to believe that you will be a couple forever. One disagreement and you may break up, if so and you have got her professional help and you know that somebody else is watching over her.
We all know that having responsibility and doing the right thing is hard and sometimes embarrassing when you are 16, even if it isn’t a matter of life and death there are many things you will regret that you didn’t put a serious effort and just tricked our self that we did. Don’t let this be one of those things
She is holding on to the cliff, get every little insect to pull her up. If she stills falls down you know you gave it all, it will stilll be a hard lose to accept but you dident everything you could for her

[FOTEPX]

Guys, my girlfriend wants to off herself. I'm scared and I have no idea what to do. I'm halfway around the world from where she is, I've managed to talk her out of it so far, but even then I'm a little suspicious. She might've already done it already. I'm afraid and I don't know what I can do.

Get her to a therapist or consultant. I've been through what she's going through myself, and the worst thing is being left alone during all this, because during that time your depressed thoughts just... grow. It's like a cancer, and it can consume you if you don't get some help for it.

[helloface]

Dealing with suicide at any age completely blows. Fortunately it's often empty threats amongst teens.

Not always though.

[RpJk]

Guys, my girlfriend wants to off herself. I'm scared and I have no idea what to do. I'm halfway around the world from where she is, I've managed to talk her out of it so far, but even then I'm a little suspicious. She might've already done it already. I'm afraid and I don't know what I can do.

My advice would to have people be more optimistic around her and tell her to keep fighting and smiling. Sometimes we have to go through very dark days in order to reach the bright moments of our life. Just don't leave her alone cause that will do a lot of damage. I've learned that personally.