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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #20 on: November 15, 2010, 09:46:32 AM »
I`m sorry for you craig! I hope everything turns out good for you.

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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #21 on: November 15, 2010, 09:51:54 AM »
Do like I did, become a stoic !

And what hydro said.

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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #22 on: November 15, 2010, 10:22:34 AM »
Sarcasm I hope Nar.
I feel so sorry for you craig, you're obviously going through a horrible time.
I hope things pick up for you soon though, I really do.

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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #23 on: November 15, 2010, 10:35:15 AM »
Sarcasm I hope Nar.

Absolutely not... stoicism is a perfectly valable school of thought IMO.

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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #24 on: November 15, 2010, 10:37:57 AM »
Sarcasm I hope Nar.

Absolutely not... stoicism is a perfectly valable school of thought IMO.

Same. I think I actually became a stoic unintentionally. I just don't let stuff get to me as much. Had to force myself to cry at my mother's funeral, etc.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #25 on: November 15, 2010, 10:39:23 AM »
I think I might qualify as a stoic. I just really do not give a flying melon about most things.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #26 on: November 15, 2010, 10:40:19 AM »
I think I might qualify as a stoic. I just really do not give a flying melon about most things.

Best figure of speech I have ever heard.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #27 on: November 15, 2010, 10:43:12 AM »
That's kinda how I compensate for it. By trying to find humour in anything and making little or no sense at all.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #28 on: November 15, 2010, 10:44:27 AM »
That's kinda how I compensate for it. By trying to find humour in anything and making little or no sense at all.
...are we the same person?

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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #29 on: November 15, 2010, 10:46:04 AM »
I surround myself with potentially deadly objects. And, somehow, headbutting a hammer is fun.


Which reminds me, I should start drawing up plans for that scrap metal fortress laden with Tesla coils that I want to build and live in someday.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #30 on: November 15, 2010, 10:49:47 AM »
That's kinda how I compensate for it. By trying to find humour in anything and making little or no sense at all.
...are we the same person?
I don't think so. I'm Scrap Daddy's brother, and you're Virus Bomb's brother.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #31 on: November 15, 2010, 11:34:15 AM »
Don't worry. Keep your head up and it'll sort itself out soon.

Also, my mum and dad have decided to spring it on me that they're breaking up.

My mom and dad broke up ~7 months ago. I know what it feels like. As long as you stay strong, everything'll be alright.

Take your time coming back here. Good luck, Craaig. ;)


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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #32 on: November 15, 2010, 11:46:05 PM »
I really really hoped I wouldn't have to bring this thread back up again, but it feels necessary.
Again, I may not be around much, and this may mean a few delays to RIMP and RIP AI.

The first 2 problems from the original post are still issues, especially the one about me and her. Our relationship has been thrown around (a lot) and again, I'm in a lot of emotional pain. Throw in the fact that there's another girl coming into the equation and, well, sh** is ****ed up.

She, obviously, is still in worse having found her mum in a shed, and has recently tried doing some very silly things. I just hope she isn't going the way her mum did.
Also, my mum and dad have decided to spring it on me that they're breaking up. It's by no means a clean break, with my dad trying to kill himself a few days ago, and my mum threatening to. So that's 3 cases of attempted suicide/threats of it in just the last 3 days.
Evidently, this is very very detrimental to me, especially with a huge workload at the moment. Cider is my friend.

Sorry if I'm seeming all depressive here but, you know, things aren't great, and I apologize for any delays with anything while I get myself back on the rails. I don't want people to get all troll-y, I just thought it'd be better if I gave you reasons. Martymidget can confirm whatever I'm saying.
Cheers :L


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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #33 on: November 16, 2010, 03:27:26 AM »
well now I feel like a massive d**k for asking you to upload more videos for RIMP.....  :embarr

dont worry about any of the RIMP/RIPAI stuff for as long as you need to... its not going anywhere

my thoughts and prayers are with you also and if you ever want to chat about anything.. just to get it off your chest or whatever you know where to contact me if you need it..


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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #34 on: November 16, 2010, 05:04:49 AM »
well now I feel like a massive d**k for asking you to upload more videos for RIMP.....  :embarr

I laughed out loud reading this. I'm so cold and uncaring and proud of it ahahahaha

Anyways, I hope you find a solution to this, Craaig. You are a helpful member of the community, and plus entirely random so I hope you stay.

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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #35 on: November 16, 2010, 09:48:50 PM »
Anyways, I hope you find a solution to this, Craaig. You are a helpful member of the community, and plus entirely random so I hope you stay.

My thoughts exactly.

Also, if all these suicides could be happening, tell someone! Trying to deal with a friend or family member thinking of suicide is the last thing you should do, just get someone who either knows more or knows more of what to do to help them. You can't go at it yourself, its not something that anyone should ever be put through on their own.
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Re: May not be around much for a while.
« Reply #36 on: November 16, 2010, 09:50:35 PM »
Anyways, I hope you find a solution to this, Craaig. You are a helpful member of the community, and plus entirely random so I hope you stay.

My thoughts exactly.

Also, if all these suicides could be happening, tell someone! Trying to deal with a friend or family member thinking of suicide is the last thing you should do, just get someone who either knows more or knows more of what to do to help them. You can't go at it yourself, its not something that anyone should ever be put through on their own.

I helped talk someone out of suicide once. He somehow survived drinking a bottle and a half of Everclear.
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