im just waiting for meganerdbomb to come along and kick things into gear.
I'll just keep letting bygones be bygones and straight-up giving the next person(and so on) the benefit of the doubt even if they will just prove to be no different from the other tumors I've had in my life.
Be forgiving of what you think is forgivable, but stand by your values when that person broke something that is deeply important to you. Forgiveness is useful, but don't make it an all-ends ideal.
But any friendship that’s been destroyed over petty sh**(or any reason for that matter) can’t ever be repaired, nor can it ever be forgiven.
Things can’t just go back to how they were before you opened Pandora’s box. You can’t just pretend X didn’t happen when it’s what broke you apart, because the notion of such a thing will always be there eating away at you and any former friend(s) because you’ll always be reminded of it. It just doesn’t work that way.
ALERT- Another WS coming up...
I'm fine with hugging reier
Quote from: Naryar on May 13, 2020, 12:03:30 PMBe forgiving of what you think is forgivable, but stand by your values when that person broke something that is deeply important to you. Forgiveness is useful, but don't make it an all-ends ideal.But any friendship that’s been destroyed over petty sh**(or any reason for that matter) can’t ever be repaired, nor can it ever be forgiven.
Things can’t just go back to how they were before you opened Pandora’s box. You can’t just pretend X didn’t happen when it’s what broke you apart, because the notion of such a thing will always be there eating away at you and any former friend(s) because you’ll always be reminded of it.
Honestly I have tried to work it out with some of the people I’m having issues with- I just can’t seem to get over stupid sh** that was said over both parties and what resulted in some of these broken friendships in the first place. It just always seems to make it more awkward and harder to talk to eachother.Especially topics like this- I’m sorry for being such a ****ing drama queen.
I suppose, there really are people out there that I need to make amends with, and actually try again to rectify some of these things; some of said people even being members of this site. For what it’s worth, my issues only stem from the fact I’m just inherently bad at interactions if you want to be real about it, and was just always trying too hard to please people from my past to which would just end up with them breaking my heart(not romantically) over petty things, and would result in my trust issues over excessive exposer to people of a similar nature. I don’t know how understandable that is to you guys, but what I’m saying is I would like to try and better myself- and by extension apologize for stupid sh** I’ve done to get banned from the discord and/or look bad among everyone else here/upset anyone.