DSL is designed to be stand alone and NOT MODDED! You should use mods in all games EXCEPT DSL!
Only use DSL AI packs with DSL, and stock AI packs with stock RA2.As of now there's only one custom DSL AI pack, made by RFS. Barbie and Phlox were making one a while ago but I don't know what happened to that.
You got my vote for RA2 Wizard. Always and forever.